What can I do if I am in an abusive relationship?

  • Recognise that it is happening to you.
  • Accept that you are not to blame.
  • If possible, try and extricate yourself from the situation and leave as your personal safety is of paramount importance.
  • Do not retaliate physically or verbally.
  • Keep a photographic record of injuries.
  • Report each incident to your GP or hospital.
  • Take advice regarding injunctions from a reliable solicitor.
  • Seek help from a local council housing officer, especially if children are involved.
  • Ensure that you have your evidence.